This has been a long time coming; “My Youth Romantic Comedy is Wrong, As I Expected,” or affectionately known as Oregairu, has been an anime that has tugged on my heartstrings since 2013. As of this today, is 2020, the anime has thus concluded, with an ending that satisfies me as an avid watcher. The content is quite long and has spanned years in regards to watching, this review won’t necessarily be one that introspectively dives into the narrative and characters, but it will be one that serves to piece together themes and motifs that I myself have seen, experienced, and gathered whilst watching and following alongside this narrative that seems SNAFU… (Keep in mind, I own NONE of the images below, but there are simply used to provide context on which I review/analyze).
As an educator of English, it is always in my interest to view shows that center around adolescents and the motifs around coming-of-age stories. And Oregairu is nothing short of coming-of-age.

The three seasons of the show revolve around the three central characters that live their high school lives, Hikigaya Hachiman (Hikki), Yukino Yukinoshita (Yukino), and Yui Yuigahama (Yui). The trio make up the volunteer Services club, a made-up club used as a punishment for Hikki when he writes an mocking essay on social relationships. There, they try to solve problems that plague the high school day-to-day: all of which seem to center around relationships. And it is here that the central theme of authenticity and genuine of oneself is introduced and played out throughout the entirety of the show. Hikki is socially both socially adept and inept, being able to understand that “today’s generation” revolves popularity and social standing, yet refuses to take part in it. It also doesn’t help his ineptitude that eyes are referred by many in the show as “dead-fish,” invoking the sense that Hikki is classified as “other” to his colleagues and peers.
![Classic Dead-Fish Eyes. Happy Birthday 8Man! [OreGairu] : animegifs](https://external-preview.redd.it/M88fqQjsRVOlFAq_VH4kgrMbJIi6Tb0J_EGwS0Ka7t8.gif?format=png8&s=087be1f06aff0ea1487805b1c65b6cce407ea616)
This leads to an interesting dynamic for Hikki, as throughout the series, he is co-erced into fulfilling deeds and services for his colleagues and peers that want to live out their youth! The plight of Hikki and his rebellion against youth drives the show and his relationship with Yui and Yukino. As the show progresses, we see Hikki start to question his own rebellion and youth.And this is where, as a teacher, I am inclined to see the value of how this show questions the zeitgeist of the generation. While I do not live in Japan, it is easy enough to see parallels between these characters and the high schools of today, obsessed with trying to fit in, find love and live their youthfulness until it is time to grow up and be sad. Both Hikki and Yukino hate the ideals of youthfulness, and are drawn to hate how things are. Yui, the third of the trio, lives and thrives in the generation of social media; she is cheerful, knows the slang of her time, and yet genuinely loves the pair. She is the one who tries hard for the sake of others. That isn’t to say the neither Hikki or Yukino are cruel, evil people. They have been casted aside as outcasts, and are products of the society that seems so artificial for them. As I continue to document my thoughts about this show, note that the theme of genuineness is the key to all these characters.

I’ll leave my first thoughts here. Think about your time during your youth. How much of your “true self” did you let yourself expose to the world? Did you find yourself seeking other’s approval; did you live vicariously or true? These thoughts I will ponder myself and answer.




